Some people fear debt. However, society runs on debt and not all debt is bad. Bad debt is debt that was accrued for worthless things such as gas, food, gambling, etc. Those things should be covered with cash. Good debt is debt that is accrued for things that have value such as an education a car and/or a house.
The catch is that you can’t get enough credit to go into debt for the things that have value until you artificially put yourself in debt for the things that don’t.
Your parents should have told you to get a credit card when you’re 18 and charge gas and groceries to it and pay it off every month. People that didn’t play this game end up at a car dealership at some point wondering why they can’t seem to get an interest rate below 20%. Because they didn’t play the game when they were young and maybe pay a little bit of interest then, now they get to pay thousands extra in interest for things they actually need.
In 2001 or so (I was about 21) I was looking to buy a car. I went to the Hyundai dealer and expected to get a cheap car and a reasonable interest rate. Instead they wanted to give me a 20% interest rate and they refused to even pretend to bargain. So I walked out. I had access to another car so I drove that for a couple years. In 2003 I saw Honda advertising Civics for about $160 a month with a lease. I walked into the dealership and at first they said I didn’t have enough credit.
What that means is that I hadn’t been playing the credit game long enough. I’ve never missed a payment but my credit card limits at that time were pretty low and I was 23 so I only had a few years of credit history. I also wasn’t making enough. Then I mentioned student loans. I got the car.
I played the credit card game for a few more years never missing a payment and making use of credit cards responsibly. When the lease was up in 2006 I went to a Mitsubishi dealer and walked out with a brand new Outlander with a 0% interest rate. I went from 20% to 0% in 5 years just by being responsible with debt. I was also making middle class income by then.
This is where it becomes obvious that “saving money on interest” by paying cash for everything is really silly. I bought a $20K+ car interest free. I was able to do that because I had spent the previous 6-8 years not paying cash for everything so that I had a strong credit history. I’m sure I spent some money on interest for credit card debt but in the end I saved thousands more than I spent on this one purchase alone.
Credit is a long term goal. You shouldn’t worry about short term interest. You should try to keep it to a minimum but you shouldn’t fear it.
The American dream is to own your own home. You can’t do it if you don’t have credit. A year after I bought the car I bought a $160K home with a 30 year fixed mortgage at 7.125%. That’s not a “great” interest rate but at the time it was about as good as you could do.
The other reason you shouldn’t fear interest is because you can minimize it. For whatever reason a lot of people pay the minimum they owe on things. Especially cars and houses. Unless you have a 0% interest rate you should be paying more than the minimum. The interest rate on my house is good but if I put an extra $100 a month on the mortgage I pay it off 7 years earlier saving around $84,000.
Like it or not you have to play the game. If I hadn’t started playing the credit game early I wouldn’t have the car, the house and the education I have now. The things that make up the American dream. Now that I have all of that I can stop using credit cards. Which is exactly what I’m doing. They are only used for unexpected large expenses.
If I continue the path I’m on I should be debt free before I’m 50. That gives me 15 years of throwing money into savings and investments. There is around $2000 a month I’m putting towards debts. 15 years with $2000 a month going into savings is $360,000 not including any interest earned.
In short, the game is this, build your credit quickly, achieve the American dream of a house, a car and an education, pay off all your debts, save all the money you were putting on debts for retirement. Retire without a house payment. Do whatever you want.